Addiction & Relapse
As is often the case with mental illness, one of my kids has a dual diagnosis. In layman’s terms that means he has bipolar disorder and addiction issues.
Sadly, he’s using again. This is more common than not, but each time a relapse occurs my husband, Mark, and I have to regroup, re-discuss, and determine where our ability to help ends. There is a fine line between enabling the addict and supporting the ill.
The up side…we’ve learned innumerable skills and lessons from having been down this road many times before.
We no longer judge, blame, accuse, argue, or despair.
We talk about the realities of the situation, present clear alternatives, and allow Michael, whom we love and adore, to make his own choices.
We have peace despite challenge.
That is a wonderful gift.
Want to talk about it?