Create Boundaries in a Loving Relationship

I care for someone with a serious mental illness.

Sometimes the illness “gets in the way.”

What are appropriate boundaries, and how do I set them?

  1. Discuss how you hope to treat others and how you expect to be treated.
  2. Agree on a format for solution when these expectations are not met.
  3. Plan and stick to individual, separate activities as well as “together time.”
  4. Respect one another’s privacy and clearly establish times or topics that are off limits.
  5. Do not tolerate self injury, violence or abuse of any kind.
    If they occur, seek help or tell someone immediately.
  6. Safety is a top priority. If you question anyone’s safety, get help. Call a responsible adult or dial 911.
  7. Expect that your relationship will be kind, supportive and loving. Always work toward that goal.

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