Suicide and Our Children
Friday, December 19th, 2008
We often hear about suicidal college students, but suicide and suicide attempts are growing problems among younger kids as well. High school and middle school children, particularly boys who live in homes with guns, are killing themselves at alarming and increasing rates. Consider the following facts, gleaned from the National Institute of Mental Health, The Jed Foundation and Ulifeline.org:
• Suicide rates for those between the ages of 10-14 increased 99% between 1980 and 1997. This age group has shown a small decline in the past two years. For 2001, the rate is 1.5 per 100,000.
• In the 10 to 14 age group, white youths (ranked 3rd leading cause of death) were far more likely to complete suicide than black youths (ranked 7th leading cause of death). White males between 10 and 14 years of age were three times more likely to complete suicide than females of the same age.
• In 2001, there were 272 suicides in the U.S among children ages 10 to 14.
• Most adolescent suicides occur after school hours and in the teen’s home.
• Within a typical high school classroom, it is likely that three students (one boy and two girls) have made a suicide attempt in the past year.
• The typical profile of an adolescent nonfatal suicide attempter is a female who ingests pills, while the profile of the typical completer suicide is a male who dies from a gunshot wound.
• Not all adolescent attempters admit their intent. Deliberate self-harming behaviors should be considered serious and in need of further evaluation.
• Most adolescent suicide attempts are precipitated by interpersonal conflicts. The intent of the behavior appears to be to effect change in the behaviors or attitudes of others.
• Repeat attempters (those making more than one nonlethal attempt) generally use their behavior as a means of coping with stress and tend to exhibit more chronic symptoms, poor coping histories, and a higher presence of suicide and substance abuse in their families.
• Many teens display one or more of the signs identified below. If observed, seek professional help:
- Presence of a psychiatric or social disorder (depression, drug or alcohol abuse in home, behavior problems, runs away, has been incarcerated)
- The expression/communication of thoughts of suicide, death, dying or the afterlife (in a context of sadness, boredom, hopelessness or negative feelings)
- Impulsive and aggressive behavior; frequent expressions of rage
- Use of alcohol or drugs
- Exposure to another’s suicidal behavior
- Recent severe stressor (difficulty dealing with sexual orientation; unplanned pregnancy, significant real or anticipated loss, family violence, etc.)
- Family instability; significant family conflict
If you encounter a young person whose situation is mirrored in the above facts, act now. Reach out. Offer help. You may save a life.









